Pivoting is part of that process of reaching the goal. Some steps succeed, some need a little working on, and some need to be abandoned. But each of them have contributed towards progress, towards your learning.
Grandparents have their own way of touching our lives, shaping the personalities and influencing us in many ways.
When the first time I had laid eyes on her, she looked like a little plucked chicken…all red and shrivelled, swaddled in the folds of a soft blanket which I had washed repeatedly so that it becomes even more soft, if that was possible!! She was trying her best to open her eyes and get busy with the business of life. Years have passed and my “chicken li’l” has grown up. Oh yes, I still call her by that name.