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Imagine this: Your child falls and scrapes their knee. Who do they run to first? If it’s you, that’s trust in action. It’s not something we can buy or demand—it’s earned, nurtured, and strengthened over time.
From the moment they’re born, trust is their first experience with the world. When it’s broken or neglected, children grow up struggling to trust others, forming relationships built on fear and doubt. But when trust is woven into their upbringing, it becomes their foundation for confidence, resilience, and meaningful relationships.
Trust is more than just a comforting presence; it actively shapes the child’s confidence, resilience and character. So, how do you build that trust with your child?
“Children trust their parents first. If that trust is broken, it’s hard for them to trust the world.” – Janet Lansbury
Steps to Build that TRUST
1. Eases Communication
You know you’ve their trust when they effortlessly confide in you about anything.
They feel an ease in sharing their ideas, fears and dreams.
No forced conversations, no second-guessing—just honest, open communication.
Like when they make a mistake at school, do they feel comfortable to tell you or do they hide it?
A child who trusts their parents will not hesitate to share.
2. Boosts Their Confidence
A child who knows their parents have their back. They’re willing to take risks as they believe in themselves. Whether learning to ride a bike or preparing for their first job interview, your trust powers their confidence.
A child learning to ride a bike without fear of falling or damaging their bike in the fall are confident to take the risk because you’re there for them.
3. Helps Them Face Challenges Head-On
Life isn’t easy, but a child raised in a trust-filled environment knows they have a safety net. They develop problem-solving skills and resilience because they believe in your guidance. This makes them mentally strong.
4. Encourages a Positive Mindset
When children feel protected from judgment, they process their emotions better. They become more open to feedback, handle setbacks with grace, and maintain healthier relationships at home and outside.
5. Strengthens Your Bond for Life
The relationship formed on trust forms a strong foundation which can stand the test of time.
Doesn’t matter what they experience in life, they know that you’re there for them.
These strong bonds help form everlasting relationships.
6. Shapes Their Character and Integrity
When trust is strong, kids don’t feel the need to hide mistakes or blame others. They learn to distinguish between right and wrong, develop accountability, honesty, and the ability to form healthy relationships as adults.
Trust isn’t just something children give, its something they’ve to receive too. Letting them make small decisions and respecting their choices teaches them responsibility.
The Final Thought
Building trust isn’t about grand gestures. From keeping a promise to respecting their opinions, it’s in the little moments. The way you listen without judgment, the way you support them through failures, the way you show up consistently.
Start small. One conversation, one reassurance, one act of trust at a time.
Try this: next time your child comes to you with a problem, instead of jumping in with a solution, ask them what they would like to do. This shows trust in their opinion, building their confidence.
💡 What’s one way you build trust with your child? Hit reply and share!
Until next time,
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