Do you know how your day is going to be, or what will be the outcome of that important meeting you were anxious about?
No, you’ve an idea but are filled with uncertainty about the outcome.
Uncertainty is as much a part of our lives as is the air we breathe. But it need not get overwhelming or stress inducing.
How you look at uncertainty is something that can be learned by changing your perspective. And must start from childhood.
Why this uncertainty is beneficial?
Every time you’re uncertain of something, you look for alternatives to be better prepared. If not this, then that.
Uncertainty becomes your tool for growth and adaptability. You exert yourself to think outside the box, come up with innovative solutions for your problems.
You work on dealing with your apprehensions and dread. Reacting with panic is not helpful. Working on overcoming your fears and anxiety builds your emotional resilience.
And this is what has to be taught to the children.
Build on their creative thinking and problem solving capability. Teach them to be confident of themselves and not succumb to any fear or anxiety.
Work on strengthening their growth mindset. It will show them that making mistakes and being unsure are part of their personal growth.
Teaching children to be comfortable with uncertainty.
Children are stronger than we give them credit.
By working on building their understanding that uncertainty is a part of life, you can reduce their anxiety.
Life is never predictable. And the earlier they understand this the better.
Encourage them to ask questions. Tease their innate curiosity. Show them how each uncertainty provides them an opportunity to explore and learn about the world.
Talk to them about uncertain situations. Say, what do you want to do if you don’t make it the team? Or, what do you plan to do if you don’t get that part-time job?
Show them how to adapt to the changing circumstances. Let them experience for themselves the benefit of flexible thinking.
This builds their confidence in handling unexpected change.
Overcoming the fear of the unknown.
Showing them through personal experiences or examples is fine. But sometimes it’s important to address their fears directly.
If they have moved to a new school or city, be patient and assist them in the transition.
Offer practical tips to confront and manage their fears. Be their support and backup as they deal with their challenges.
Cheer them and build their confidence.
Show them how adaptability is the key to dealing with uncertainty. By remaining flexible they’re able to adapt to the changes effortlessly.
Conclusion: Thriving in Uncertainty
Uncertainty is an undeniable part of our lives.
What matters is our attitude. If you look at these uncertainties as obstacles, then you’ll find yourself engulfed in untold fears leading to anxiety.
If instead you look at them as an opportunity to learn and grow, then there’s nothing stopping you.
You become a formidable force of positive growth.
If the mindset of the children can be tuned into this frequency, then your child is ready to take on the uncertainties of the world fearlessly.
