Being different takes courage and confidence. But don’t confuse it with disagreeing with everything just to prove a point. It’s not the same.
Does giving excuses, doesn’t matter how creative, make something you haven’t done less significant?
Discipline is not always about walking the straight, pre-set path. It’s about learning what to do, and remaining calm and capable.
You need enough courage to write the first sentence, publish the first imperfect version. Or make that first call, walk in with your first business proposal, or take that first step.
Their indecision or hesitation is part of that learning process. You don’t have to encourage it, neither do you need to rush them out of it. They’re learning that decisions aren’t always about getting what they want.
You’ll agree no is a powerful word. It expresses your decision, clarity of thought, focus and even level of commitment. It’s a serious transaction most of the time.
The true leaders get the others to follow their lead by listening to what’s been said, by understanding what’s missing, and doing what needs to be done.
It’s easy to lose control of yourself when under stress. That’s when your raw, true form comes out. The real test of strength comes to the fore when you remain respectful and polite even when challenged.