How Much Help Is Too Much When the Goal Is to Raise a Confident, Self-Sufficient Child?
Sometimes parents forget in their efforts to do everything for the children is that children develop confidence through their, the child’s, lived experience.
Sometimes parents forget in their efforts to do everything for the children is that children develop confidence through their, the child’s, lived experience.
The mind is constantly stimulated but not necessarily challenged. And sometimes it makes you feel like you’re busy even though your mind isn’t mentally engaged.
Their indecision or hesitation is part of that learning process. You don’t have to encourage it, neither do you need to rush them out of it. They’re learning that decisions aren’t always about getting what they want.
You’ll agree no is a powerful word. It expresses your decision, clarity of thought, focus and even level of commitment. It’s a serious transaction most of the time.
The true leaders get the others to follow their lead by listening to what’s been said, by understanding what’s missing, and doing what needs to be done.
Deep conversations don’t require you to spend hours or indulge in some profound discussions every time you meet.
It just needs you to give someone your complete attention.
Confidence doesn’t come from just good grades. It grows gradually when the child feels they’re being listened to, that what they’re saying is being taken seriously.
Visible learning is uncomfortable, harsh and often difficult. People notice your mistakes long before they notice your improvements. There’s feedback before appreciation.